I Know a Black Man

For years, there have been a lot of unhealthy things spoken about the Black man. I'm not talking about healthy truth; I'm speaking about unhealthy, stereotypical jargon, designed to tear down what God has built. I just want to paint a different picture of that workmanship of God, that I know. I know what’s seen on the news and other media outlets. I know what’s plaguing the neighborhoods. I know what some have experienced, and I know what it appears to be a lot of times, but let me tell you about the kind of Black man I know. I know a Black man that knows he's not a man at all, if he doesn’t serve and honor God. I know a Black man that knows that he’s a powerful force, with God on his side. I know a humble Black man, yet strong and a defender. I know a Black man that fought for equality, stood when nobody would stand, spoke out on the tough issues, raised his children with integrity and instilled hard-working values in them. I know a Black man that would never sell out his own. I know a Black man that loves everybody. I know a Black man who works hard, taking care of his family, making sure provision and deadlines are met. I know a Black man that doesn’t back down from challenges or runs from trouble. I know a Black man who kneels before God, and stands tall in the face of adversity. I know a Black man who could make excuses, who could quit when all the odds are stacked against him, who is constantly beat down by society’s views and opinions about him- but he refuses to fold and shows up to give his best every day. This is not just one Black man; it’s many. This is the core of a Black man. He’s a leader, gifted, innovative, protective, athletic, versatile, intelligent, wise, nurturing, loving, unselfish, powerful, relentless, forgiving; yet, so misunderstood, undervalued, and unappreciated. Yes, he falls short sometimes, but his “get up” is more amazing! There are Black men doing amazing things, being amazing dads, husbands, sons, brothers, uncles, friends and colleagues. They’re leaders, entrepreneurs and key employees. They’re inventors, catalysts, revolutionists and torch bearers; yet, negativity is overshadowing these wonderful men. I wrote this article, because I understand how frustrating it must be, for upstanding Black men- and those who are trying hard to be better- for everybody to see your faults, but never see your views, fears or tears. I want to encourage you to keep being the kind of Black man that outshines all the darkness around you. If society can hold you accountable, we surely can hold you up as well. Somebody notices you Black man; most importantly, God does!